You know the popular saying “Little drops of water make a mighty ocean”. The same applies to
marriage. Little drops of anger, pride, pain, disrespect, cheating, physical abuse, emotional
abuse, financial abuse, domestic violence, resentment, and selfishness being dropped every
day become a mighty ocean for all the times you don’t wipe them off as soon as they fall. And
when that happens, that’s when the marriage breaks up and it becomes irreparable.
What little drops of water should you not allow to accumulate in your marriage? Ask yourself
today. Is it selfishness, disregard or intolerance? It’s a very long list.
You’re thinking about something your husband did a few days ago or last year and you’re still
bringing it up. You have not wiped it away and it’s going to accumulate. Something else is going
to happen tomorrow and you’re going to add that on top of it.
What did your wife do last year? What did she do last week? What did she do when she had a
lot of money, didn’t share it with you, and maybe you lost your job?
I know it is painful, I’ve had experiences as well! But what we do with such little drops of water is
that we wipe them off immediately so that they don’t become a mighty ocean where you get to
the point where one person moves away and says that’s the end, I’m not being a part of this
marriage anymore. Little drops of water make a mighty ocean.
Today, decide that you want to wipe away every negative little drop of water that you have been
accumulating in your marriage. “He cheated on you” “she cheated on you” etc.
